Erotic games and sexual fantasies are natural parts of a person’s sex life. And among the greatest fetishes of men and women seeking pleasure are dominance and submission. You have tried?
Well, this subject gained a lot of visibility with the publication of the fiction-erotic trilogy written by Erika Leonard James, “Fifty Shades of Grey”, followed by “Fifty Shades Darker” and “Fifty Shades of Freedom”.
Success and interest in the theme increased when the trilogy was adapted to film. If you like to dominate or be dominated, it’s worth checking out what Christian Gray and Anastasia are up to behind bars… Or, if you don’t know much about this fetish yet, the spicy plot can be a gateway for new ones practitioners of this sexual lifestyle.
The truth is that from this trilogy on, women’s interest in domination – being dominated by a man in bed – has grown a lot…
But do you know exactly what Domination means?
Domination is one of the BDSM fetishes (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) and, despite being a very current subject, there is nothing new.
Domination has been registered since Classical Antiquity, with two aspects: Domination and Submission, practices directly linked to sadomasochism.
The term “Domination” is used to describe an unequal relationship established between two people, where the dominant has all the power and the submissive part just obeys.
The dominator is someone who enjoys controlling both physically and psychologically a submissive person.
Of course, boundaries will be set by partners before you start practicing these sexual fantasies. That way, everyone will know how far they can go in the games… After all, what is at stake is just pleasure!
To play this “game”, partners must stipulate a word for each one to know and ask them to stop playing when someone goes overboard.
The game of domination has some degrees, and this varies according to the wishes of each couple. Some just like a few games, others already prefer something more intense and “heavy”, like slapping and biting, for example.
Taste is taste, and we don’t discuss that, right? The only rule is: if the partner agrees, anything goes in the name of pleasure!
how to be a good dominator
If you prefer to be the dominator, we’ll give you some tips and tricks to get it right! You must, that’s right, send your partner, or partner, to do exactly what you want!
Let’s take some examples: have 15 minutes of oral sex; use a different tone of voice to give orders, forget “please” and “thank you” and punish if not obeyed. Like? Be surprising when punishing. Torturing like an ice cube, for example, doesn’t look bad…
how to be a good submissive
Now, if you prefer to be a good submissive, or submissive, you must behave in an entirely submissive manner. In other words, you will just obey this master and slave game.
Even the body language must be submissive, kneeling and giving thanks even at the point of punishment. If you have already established your rules, now just let it happen and enjoy… The gratification for all of this you already know what it is!
Accessories for pleasure…
Domination “requires” some accessories that make all the difference when playing. Among the most common ones for practicing the game are handcuffs, blindfolds, costumes, leather clothes, whips, collars, ropes for hitting, punishing, erotic swinging, putting ice on the body, holding nipples and even immobilizing activities.
All this in exchange for feelings of power, pain and much, much pleasure during the relationship!
Enjoy it all at Motel Passione
If you’re new to this subject, but want to try new ways to feel pleasure without going around shopping for accessories, how about enjoying it all in one of our suites?
Motel Passione has everything for those who want to practice this fetish!
All the Sex Shop products are available in each of the suites at Motel Passione to spice up the moment even more. Just ask for the “Erotic Chest” at the reception. Wow, huh? A chest with everything to provide moments of intense pleasure.
Now, if you want to go a little further, the Berlin Suite is perfect for fulfilling your fantasies! The suite has a guillotine and handcuffs attached to the wall, where you can arrest your partner or partner and throw yourself into this idea of domination and submission.
