How much do you know about sex? Just the basics? The advanced? Are you sure all the information you’ve acquired to date is true? But what if they aren’t? Shall we talk a little more about the subject?
Here in this text, we’ll cover everything you need to keep in mind about sex. And the sooner you absorb this information, the better it will be for you. After all, information is a great ally of a pleasant and safe sex life.
So, keep reading this text! I’m sure this information will be a turning point in your pleasure and your sex life as a whole!
What do women need to know about sex?
1 – The pleasure has to be yours too!
There are still many people (including women) who think that, on the scale of sex, pleasure has to be more for the man than for the woman. You know that old “sex ends when he comes” story?
Well, keep in mind that it’s not like that, ok? Sex is exchange. Therefore, both parties involved must be pleased. So, surrender and allow yourself to have pleasure throughout sexual intercourse.
2 – Your body is made to feel pleasure!
Here on the blog, we already have some texts talking better about the clitoris. Yes, it is that part of your vagina that exists exclusively for you to have very good orgasms. If you don’t know him yet, don’t waste time and get to know him better. It has huge potential!
3 – Sex is not the most important part of a relationship
In Brazil, women lose their virginity very early. By the age of 15 or 16, they already have an active sex life. And women tend to value sex more than they should. In other words, they value sex too much, when they shouldn’t.
Know that sex is, yes, a very important part of a relationship. But that’s not the most important part of any relationship. A good relationship is a set of factors (among them, respect and trust) and not just sex.
4 – Dealing well with oral sex
Oral sex can be very confusing for women. Both having oral sex and receiving oral sex. The first important point to clarify here is that oral sex is not a gift. Not an obligation. And you don’t have to enjoy receiving oral sex, but you can.
In order for you to give someone else oral sex, you must enjoy doing it. No dealing with this as if it were an obligation. We women tend to think that women who enjoy oral sex (and who know how to do good oral sex) are less valued.
So get this taboo off your back and rethink the matter. Sex is delivery and involves several factors. If you want to better understand how to have good oral sex, we have texts here on the blog on the subject.
Now, about enjoying oral sex, are we going to throw another taboo in the trash? From the moment the boy proposed to do it, put the shame aside and enjoy! Relax, help him make the moves that please you the most and know how to enjoy yourself that way.
It’s past time to get rid of this taboo that “right women can’t like sex.” You can (and should) like sex yes! In every way possible!
5 – Surrender yourself and have fun!
Continuing the previous topic, let go of this “right woman can’t like sex” story. Enjoy sex, indulge, have fun! Get rid of everything that holds you and be happy with this activity!
6 – masturbate and get to know yourself
Yes, masturbation is an act of self-knowledge! So, don’t stop practicing it. Touch your body. Understand well what makes you feel pleasure. Notice how clitoral stimulation works, what pleasure is like with the stimulation of other erogenous zones.
So, when you go to have sex with another person, you will already know how to guide him so that you have pleasure. Or, you can give that little help with your own hands to have very tasty orgasms!
7 – Know how to reach orgasm with penetration
Yes, many women have difficulty reaching orgasm with penetration alone. But know that this is possible, ok? We explain here on the blog that the clitoris is much bigger than that “little button” we see with the naked eye.
Therefore, it is possible that we can stimulate it internally while we are being penetrated. But know that for this to happen, a lot of self-knowledge is required.
And there’s nothing wrong with giving your hands a little help (stimulating the clitoris) while penetration happens, okay? Sex is free and is meant for all parties involved to enjoy it. Therefore, never leave your pleasure aside!